"Should I Text Him?"

“Stop Obsessing and Learn The Real Rules Of Texting The Man You Date!”

Before you text your man, read this entire page because the way you text him will make or break your relationship!

Elaine M.D.

By Elaine M.D., a Professional Dating and Relationship Coach

Have you ever been in a relationship with a man with whom you never knew whether you should text him or not? Perhaps you wanted to, but didn’t know if you should wait for him to text you first instead? And when you texted him, you didn’t know what to say….

Have you ever sent your man the wrong text message, and later had that gut-wrenching feeling that perhaps you said something you shouldn’t have said and that you shouldn’t have sent him that text message at all but it was too late?

Have you lately been wondering whether you should text a guy first after a date, and what could happen if you decided to text him first?

Have you ever wondered what he is thinking when he gets your text message and what kind of thoughts run through his mind when he reads your text message?

Have you ever had this crazy idea cross your mind - whether there was a way you could actually make a man fall in love with you through texting?

I know, it may sound crazy, but the way you communicate through text messaging with your man sends him very powerful subliminal messages that help him decide whether he wants to continue dating you and take the relationship to the next level, or whether he will start ignoring you and your text messages altogether.

Or perhaps you had a nice chat with your guy via text messaging… but in the moment you texted him something that killed the fun…and his attraction toward you!

And you wished you could take it back, but it was too late!

Or perhaps you have been in a relationship that was fun and exciting at first, but he disappeared for days and didn’t respond to your text messages….

Or maybe your boyfriend hasn’t contacted you in a week and you are contemplating sending a text message to him….

And you wonder…. Should I text him or not?

Should I text him first?

Should I text him or wait for him to text me?

What should I say when I text him?

How should I respond to his text message he’s just sent?

It may seem like these questions are not very important, but...

 The wrong text message can easily kill his attraction and drive your man away!

Let me explain... 

When we communicate through text, we form our opinion of each other based on the text messages we receive, and based on how our text messages are received by the other person.

When you and your man communicate via text messaging, here is what’s going through his mind

-    Is she fun or boring?

-    Is she the kind of woman I will enjoy spending my time with?

-    Is she a ‘good for now’ girl or a relationship material?

-    Does she have a sense of humor or is she a bore?

-    Is she mysterious and flirtatious or is she just like everyone else I’ve met?

-    Is she the kind of woman that challenges and excites me or is she an open book?

-    Is she the kind of woman who can keep me on my toes or is she a door mat?

The kind of text messages you exchange with your man will steer your relationship either in the positive or negative direction.

Not knowing what to say, how to say it, and when it is the right time to send your text message will make or break your relationship!

 Have you ever received a text from a guy and responded to him right away only to regret what you said later?

 Or maybe you wanted to take it back and to respond differently, but it was too late…

 Have you ever apologized for sending something you shouldn’t have sent?

 Have you ever regretted sending a message or a photo you later wished no one would see?

What happens when you communicate with your man through text messaging will determine how successful your relationship will be!

Perhaps you have met a great guy and don't want to screw it up!

Or perhaps a guy who used to call you and text you regularly seems to have dropped off the face of the Earth and you are wondering if you should text him or not.

You are lost and confused.....  If you are feeling anxious and confused, I urge you to read this entire page because it will change your life!

You may or may not understand how important it is to know when to text him and when not to....

.... and what kind of text messages you should send to increase his attraction toward you, and what kind of messages you should avoid by all means!

Not knowing how to text message to your man in a way that will help create anticipation and build attraction can quickly get him bored with you!

And if your boyfriend is avoiding you, there are ways to make him take an interest in you again, but if you are reading this page, you probably don't know what they are!

Should you text him right away or should you delay your response?

Should you text him first after a date?

When should you text him and when should you not?

How can I come off as funny, fun and flirtatious through text?

How can I avoid seeming needy and desperate?

How can I show him that I am a fun woman who has a full and exciting life without sounding stuck up and arrogant?

How can I interject the right, positive emotions into my text messages and avoid negative ones?

How can I make him wonder about me?

What does it mean when he asks me to send him a dirty text or provocative pictures? And what should I do in that situation? How can I respond with dignity, and yet make him respect me and like me even more?

"One Critical Rule For Texting Your Man"

Whatever you send to your man via texting
will remain in his phone for as long as he keeps it!

 Do you really want to text him the first thing that comes into your mind or would you rather have a script to refer to in any texting situation with your man?

If you don't know how to communicate with your man in a way that will make him more attracted to you, you are probably making most critical mistakes women make with men when it comes to texting the man you date, texting your boyfriend, and texting a new man in your life!

How can I build anticipation and intense attraction through text messaging?

Should I play hard to get or respond to his text messages right away?

If you are asking any of these questions, you've come to the right place, because I am going to teach you EXACTLY what is going on through a man's mind when you communicate to him via text messaging.

If you are thinking that you should play hard to get by not returning his text messages, YOU ARE WRONG!

 I will tell you exactly what men think when you don't text them back....

I will tell you exactly what kind of impression he gets of you when you don't text him, or when you text him back right away....

I will tell you exactly when to text him and when not to... and what men think about women who text them when he doesn't even text you first....

 The quality, the frequency and the length of your text messages matter a lot when it comes to texting the man you date!

The text message that you send to your man is not just a text;

It is a subconscious message that you are sending him that will form his opinion of you, and whether he wants to have a relationship with you, or keep you for a booty call, or ignore you completely!

If you have noticed that your guy's text messages have slowly dropped....  If he stopped texting you completely....
If he used to text you all the time and now you are lucky to hear from him once a week, this is a red flag that you've messed up....

If he doesn't text you as much as he used to, this is because he does not enjoy texting you as much as he did before! But don't worry, because you can still change it! And this is why you need to hang on to every word I say on this page!

 The way you handle the situation going forward will determine whether you stay together.....

Or if you have just met a guy and don't know whether you should text him or not.....

Or if the guy doesn't text you after a great date....

You want to learn how to create attraction through texting....

You want to know how to get your man to take more interest in you by using the right text messages....

.... and avoid the wrong ones....

If you have ever had any questions about the right protocol on texting your man......

.... I have all your answers for you!

When I first started giving advice to women who wanted to get their men to call them I was receiving all kinds of e-mails from women who were broken up with their boyfriends, or just women whose men had stopped calling and texting them after a few dates.

There was this one woman in particular who knew she that the dynamics of her relationship with her boyfriend had to change. I recommended one simple strategy that turned out to become extremely successful. In fact, her boyfriend who had been ignoring her completely called her immediately after she sent him one short text message!

Not only was he calling her, he actually started to wonder about her again. He couldn’t get her out of his mind.

Later someone else asked me if I knew of a strategy that could work very fast to get a man to call you. I recommended sending the same text message. What do you know? The guy was calling her within hours!

The more women I gave the same word by word script on what to say in a text message to a guy to get him wonder about you and call you, the more success stories I began to hear!

You may have read somewhere else that sending a letter by snail mail can do the trick...... But I have something much better for you. For this to work, you don’t have to have been dating for a long time; in fact, this can work to get a man to text you within hours, or sometimes within a couple of days, regardless of the length of your relationship.

That’s right! Whether you have been in a relationship for years, or have just met recently, this word by word script can do wonders for you.

Let me explain… If the guy you are seeing is not texting you, is ignoring you and is not returning your text messages, e-mails and calls, one simple text message will make him get a totally different perception of you and your desirability. In fact, the value he places on you will grow tenfold once he gets this text message.

He will begin thinking of you and wondering about you. And as you know, the more he thinks about you, the more his emotions for you will grow.

Many women underestimate the power of text messaging. Texting, when done right can help you build intense attraction. On the other hand, when you don’t use text messaging right, you can kill attraction very fast and you won’t even know how and why that happened.

Let me tell you why you should know things such is when to text him, what to text him, how fast to respond to his text messaging, whether you should text him first, and when you shouldn’t text him first, and many other little oh-so important nuances of text messaging.

For years men have been the pursuers and women have been on the receiving end of the men’s advances. The technology seemingly changed the way we date. With the new technology developing faster than the dating rules it is no wonder that many women are confused. It seems like nothing bad can come out of sending a text message to a man you’ve just met as long as it is casual.

But the bigger picture is, it is how you respond to him, it is how fast you respond to his text message, it is what you say and how you say it that will determine whether his attraction toward you will increase or drop.

I am going to teach you exactly how to communicate with men through texting in a way that will increase his attraction toward him, not the opposite.

Too many young women that I see keep their fingers on the key pad waiting for a text message to come in so that they can shoot one back without thinking what to say or how to say it.

Listen up! He is not your girlfriend or your texting pal. And this is courtship, not an automated texting response service.

On the other hand, if you are like many women who write to me, you may be figuratively putting handcuffs on your wrists to prevent from texting him and yet the result of such texting deprivation can be disastrous.

When it comes to texting, playing hard to get is definitely not the way to go.

"Are There any Guidelines to Follow When It Comes to Texting the Man You are Dating?"

And what to do when he doesn’t text you when you want him to?

Is it ok to send him a casual text if he hasn’t texted you in a week?

When to respond to his text?

How much time to take before texting him back?

See, all these questions are very important, and if you have been seeing a guy who confuses you, you want to know the right way to communicate with him via text messaging.

If you don't, you may say something that you will later regret......

If you don’t know the right texting rules, you may very well drive your man away from you instead of bringing him closer to you!

Because the rules of dating and relationships seem to be behind the development of technology, with all sorts of communication media available to us, it is very easy to screw up!

I wondered why we have been taught how to use our cell phones for everything from taking pictures to recording video, from setting the alarm clock to browsing the Internet, and yet no one has taught us how to integrate the technology into your personal and dating lives.

Do you know that around the world pick up artists have created guides on texting women to increase the chances of getting them in bed? But somehow, until now no one has come up with texting rules for women!

I have decided to fill this gap and help all the women around the word by creating a simple to follow rules for text messaging in dating.

If you are wondering......

Should I text him?

When should I text him?

What to say to him in my text message?

Should I text him first?

Should I text him after a first date?

Should I text him after a one night stand?

Should I text my boyfriend again?

What does it mean when my boyfriend doesn’t text me back?

How to tell if I should text him on a holiday if he hasn't been in touch and what should I say if I do?

..... and when you should absolutely avoid texting him.....

 I have put together the answers to all of your most critical questions about texting the man you are dating!


"Should I Text Him?"

The Complete Texting Guide
For a Cool Modern Woman!

Here is what you will learn in this guide:

 Should I text him first? – when you should text him first and when you should not – the basic rules of texting you should live by

 Should I text him back?
– when you should text him back, should you wait to text him back or text him back right away, and how long to wait to text him back – do it too soon or too late – and you mess up – and why timing is critical when it comes to texting the man you date

 What should I text him after he has texted me? – how to be an exciting, challenging, mysterious woman!

 How to flirt through texting
and how to convey the right message – one that will get him to notice you as someone unique and special, and not just like everyone else he’s met

 When should I text him? – the critical timing rules you can't afford to miss!

 Should I text him again?
– if you have texted him already, should you text him again or not; and when it is ok to text him again and when to avoid texting him again

 How often should I text him?
– how often to text your boyfriend or a man you are dating;

Get it wrong and he will lose interest in you;

Get it right and you will build an intense level of attraction and making him fall in love with you!

 Should I wait for him to text me?
– when you should wait for him to text you and when you should text him – these rules are simple and yet women often mess up

 Why you should avoid texting him too much, and how much is too much

 How women unwittingly kill attraction by texting too much... and how they kill attraction by not texting when they should text their men

 The most common mistakes women make with texting....

 How to flirt with a new guy in your life through texting, and how to make sure that your text messages are convey in the way they are intended, and do not offend him

 Exact word by word script that got my client's disappearing boyfriend suddenly calling her off the hook the minute she texted him

 Example scripts for flirting through texting and how to generate more ideas for flirting - texting on the fly

 Why most women seem boring when they respond to their guys' text messages and how you can be different, unique and special!

You will also learn:

 Why guys prefer texting to calling on the phone especially after a first date

 What goes on through his mind when you text him first after a date

 One very important thing to remember about texting that should sink into your brain if you want to be successful at your relationships with men

 Why the first text message after a first date is critical

 One text message you can send him to find out if he likes you and wants to see you again, or if you should move on

 Do's and Don'ts of texting

 The fastest way to lose a man through texting

 What to do if he wants you to send him cell phone camera pictures that you are not comfortable sending and how to respond to that without losing your man

 What to do if you screwed up - what to do if you feel you sent him a message you wish you had not sent - should you apologize? If you don't know what to do to recover from a bad text message, you will make the same mistake most women make which ultimately make them come across as weak and pathetic!

 Should you text him if he called but didn't leave a message?

 What to do when he stops texting you, or when your boyfriend is ignoring you and does not return your text messages.....

These Are The Skills Anyone Can Learn! But no one has ever taught you this before....

You can turn your life and your relationship around for the better! And I will show you EXACTLY how to do that through texting your man and any men you ever date!

 Use text messaging with confidence knowing that whatever you say will always be the right thing to say!

Stop fearing being misunderstood!

Stop being afraid of rejection and failure…YOU can be in the driver’s seat of YOUR life once and for all because life is not a dress rehearsal and it's not a spectator's sport. Take charge of your communications with your man!

Never again be fearful of what he might think when you send him a text message!

Stop dreading that your text messages will be left un-answered!

There is no need to live your life with these negative feelings and thoughts anymore. 

What you need is a simple and efficient system to follow every time you aren't sure what you should do when it comes to texting your man!

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